Day 128, Chronological Bible Study
Timeline. Map. Go to today’s Bible reading (use your browser arrow to return): 2Samuel 24; 1Chronicles 21; Psalm 6; Psalm 38; Psalm 41; 2Samuel 15:7-36 Weakness and Betrayal When we celebrate Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, many of us will honor our parents and seek to spend time with them. Many people will travel even great distances to see their parents. That is amazing! We might not want to think about it, but it is a sad reality that some adult children disrespect their parents and take advantage of their weaknesses. As Christian parents get older, when their faith should be the strongest, sometimes they get sick or lose their confidence in God and do some foolish things. They may do them for their security and peace of mind. And, who should be there to take advantage of their weaknesses but their children! For instance, a person may convince his parent(s) to give him power of attorney and then steal from his accounts. What should parents do when their adult children no longer respect them and even betray them? In today’s Bible reading, David faces this problem with his son Absalom. What does David do? What we learn from him can help us when we are vulnerable. At the end, are 6 guaranteed ways to honor parents and make them smile, not cry. Weakness Late in David’s reign, the rest of the prophecies regarding the consequences of David’s sin begin to affect him (2Samuel 12:10-12). As King David ages, he makes a slip in his confidence towards God. The LORD allows Satan to tempt him. Instead of trusting God, David orders his forces counted to determine his military strength. He finds (to his shame) that this census was unnecessary. God is still protecting him, for at least 1.1 million Israelite soldiers are ready to take up arms in Israel’s defense (more…). David’s lack of faith is sinful because of the example he is setting for the nation. If he lacks faith in God and his troops, they will not have the confidence to fight in God’s name. Because of David’s sin, God gives him three choices for judgment, all of which are terrible. David chooses the plague, placing the nation in the LORD’s merciful hands rather than their enemies. So, God sends a pestilence, killing 70,000 of his men by the sword of the LORD through an angel. This enormous loss probably makes many of the Israelites lose confidence in David’s leadership. Suppose we are the leaders of our families or other organizations. In that case, we must be careful—expressing a lack of confidence in God can discourage others from trusting him. Yet, what can leaders do when they doubt? Get some counsel from God’s Word and pray. Professional counsel and encouragement from God’s Word can reset our focus on him. Betrayal During this time of David’s weakness, Absalom seizes the opportunity to overthrow his father and reign on his throne. Absalom wins the hearts of the people with his flatteries and then stages a coup to get rid of him. When King David learns that Absalom has stolen the hearts of Israel, he perceives an imminent attack on Jerusalem. Therefore, he takes his officials and most of the inhabitants of Jerusalem and leaves the city. David does not do this because he fears military conflict. He is sparing the city from civil war and the tabernacle from destruction. Also, David does not want to fight his son. Fleeing Jerusalem is an act of love and wisdom, not cowardice. Like David, some mothers and fathers are caught in difficult situations. They make some great personal sacrifices to keep peace in the family and commit their lives and future to God. See some interesting parallels between David and Jesus Christ here. Endurance, Action, Prayer, and Support If David and Christ could endure mocking and abuse, then could we also do it? By this, I am not encouraging mistreatment, but are we willing to suffer to save others? If we can learn from David’s example, what should we do with an unkind, adult son or daughter who shows disrespect and dishonor? Should we teach them a lesson? Should we fight, argue, or scream at them? No. We should endure hardship, be humble, obey God, and trust him (Psalm 4:3-5; Psalm 37:3-8; Psalm 43:5). We should pray and let God handle it. This is easier said than done, and we will need the power of the Holy Spirit to hold our tongue or keep us from acting in revenge. Again, I do not suggest that we should tolerate physical or mental abuse. If possible, we should report criminal offenses to the police—God established government institutions to punish wrongdoers (Romans 13:4). David receives support when he leaves Jerusalem; the Israelites still love him. We can also praise God for others who stand with us, and we can glory in the LORD for his presence with us in difficult situations. Do we have a personal relationship with God so he might help us in times of distress? We can call on him to save us today. Who gives us strength when the rope of our life is weak and about to break? From where does our help come? Our help comes from the LORD and his servants. note: the sword of the LORD through an angel mentioned above is possibly symbolic of the agent of the plague rather than the method Focus Verse Psalm 43:5 (NIV) “Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” Discussion What should older adults do if their children (or grandchildren) do not honor and respect them? When is it best to seek a way out versus standing your ground against injustice? Support is vital to a maligned or betrayed person. How might we encourage him or her? 6 Guaranteed Ways to Honor Parents and make them smile, not cry Keep in mind that parents are human. They make mistakes like we do. Be gracious, and don’t hold it against them. They will need more care and understanding as they get older. Be attentive to help and volunteer. Parents may not be able to get around and do things as they used to do. Give them the gift of your undivided attention. Just like us, parents get irritated, lonely, and they need people in their lives to talk to and to visit with. Even if some have health concerns, they want to know that they are important and matter to their loved ones. Communicate respect with your behavior and words. Even if they have hurt you, respect their position. Appreciate any good character they might have or things they have done. Ask for and value their advice. Your parents and grandparents have lived much longer than you have and have probably learned a thing or two. This might keep you out of trouble or benefit you in some other way. Don’t have a good relationship? Pray for them (and you). You can’t save or change them, but God can. Remember, if it has not happened already, you might one day be that parent, so have patience and accept them as they are.
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